Monday, March 29, 2010

I'll Just Never Be That Mom

I’ve always wanted to be one of those moms who make her own baby food, feeding her sweet munchkin only the finest, freshest, organic purees. I envisioned myself freezing perfectly measured cubes of food, so I’d never have to rely on jarred food at home. I imagined myself lovingly whizzing away at the food processor because only the best will do, right?

I made some of Aiden’s food. By the time he was ready for more than the basic purees, I’d whizz up some blueberries or spaghetti. Basically, I’d puree whatever the grown-ups had to eat. I never ventured into “real” baby food making, though.

So when Miss Savannah came along I really wanted to make it all, from her first bite forward. I tried to talk my husband into buying one of those expensive gadgets that steam and puree the food all in one, but he wasn’t convinced I’d use it. I told him my grand plans of making all sorts of baby food at one time, then freezing it all in individual cubes. I used words such as organic, fresh, and pure. He just wasn’t picking up what I was throwing down.

Maybe he knows me too well. Because he’s right…I probably wouldn’t have used those things.

Recently I was sent the book “Top 100 Baby Purees” by Annabel Karmel to review. I spent hours flipping through pages of colorful purees, trying to decide which recipes to make for Miss Savannah. I chose three and added the ingredients to my grocery list. The first one I chose to prepare was Tomato, Cauliflower, and Carrot with Basil, and I set to work chopping and dicing and steaming. Since Savannah’s dinner was a little more effort than I’m used to, I just prepared an easy dinner for the rest of us; spaghetti.

Well, before our noodles had even boiled I had already burned Savannah’s tomatoes and the cauliflower wasn’t steaming. In the blink of an eye I had boiling noodles threatening to bubble over their pot, tomatoes burning in butter, mushy carrots, and hard cauliflower….and hungry children.

I said, “FORGET THIS!” and just opened a jar of baby food. I was a failure at my first real baby food making adventure.

While feeding Savannah her not freshly homemade dinner that night, I glanced at my stove, covered in four different pots and pans, the smell of scorched tomatoes still in the air. I sighed and muttered under my breath, “I’ll just never be that mom”.

I couldn’t bring myself to even try the other two recipes I selected. (They were Pasta Risotto and Nectarine and Strawberry with Vanilla if you’re curious). It’s just so quick and easy to open a jar and be done, you know? Plus, she’s moving on to real food now so I can get away with just chopping up some of the real deal instead of steaming and pureeing.

I also received Annabel Karmel's newest book; “Top 100 Finger Foods”. This one is geared for older kids, and gives you recipes for things such as homemade chicken nuggets, fish sticks, sliders and more. I wanted to pick out a few recipes to try on Aiden. I really did. I even dog-eared a few pages.

But, man! It’s so much easier to just open that jar of peanut butter.

So, I pretty much suck at making baby food. But I must be doing something right because Aiden is a fruit and veggie eating machine! He even prefers salads to chicken nuggets and French fries. (See me justifying my lazy ways to you?). Sigh. I’m going to set aside my Mommy guilt this time and let myself off the puree hook.

What’s your experience with making baby food? Are you one of “those moms” who’s made it all from scratch? (If so, God bless you, woman!) Or do you take the easy way out, like me? (There’s no judgment here, girlfriend!)

Keeping it real: I was provided with a copy of both books mentioned above as part of the SV Moms Group Book Club. If you’re the type of mom who makes her own baby food I think you’d really find “Top 100 Baby Purees” worthwhile. It’s full of great photos and recipes and even includes tips on freezing! “Top 100 Finger Foods” is equally well laid out. Many of the recipes are family-friendly and you could easily double or triple the recipes to serve your whole clan. You'll find a ton of recipes and more on Annabel Karmel's website!

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Susan said...

Many of my friends think I was "that" Mom but really I cheated. I made almost all of Ronin's baby food, partially because of cost though. I say I cheated though because it wasn't always organic and it didn't always start as fresh either. I've learned the glories of frozen veggies and still live by them to this day. He also didn't have the biggest variety of baby food. Certain things I always bought jarred because I couldn't pull them off. I looked at that same book and was in shock at the "recipes" never did I pull them off. I was great at sweet potatoes, peas, carrots, corn, pears, squash, etc. I made it in HUGE batches, 1 food a week. Now once we hit finger foods, hand me the peanut butter and the frozen bag of mixed veggies. I'm off that train.

Amber Page Writes said...

I never even tried. We are a jarred family...but as soon as it was feasible, I started feeding her what we were eating -- ground up. She likes it better anyway.

WhisperingWriter said...

Nope, I was never one of "those" moms. It never crossed my mind to even make baby food since Gerber already had them all prepared in nice ready jars.

Kami said...

I'm right there with you, sister. If it's gonna create more mess and the highly possible outcome that my kids wont effing eat it anyway, there just ain't no way in hell. I felt no guilt serving my babes Earth's Best baby food. And now feel no guilt serving them Gorton's frozen fish sticks. I know they're gross. But I serve them with steamed broccoli.

Life As I Know It said...

When my second was born, I quit my job to stay home, started using cloth diapers and bought a new food processor to make my own baby food. I tried, but, no, I was never really truly *that* mom. I used the cloth diapers for a few months then decided it was too much work. I made my own baby food for a while and then decided that was too much work too. And then I focused on just being who I was...and we were all much happier ;)

themessyme.wordpress.com said...

No, I'm not "that mom" either. I remember my neighbour coming over with a prehistoric looking contraption, advising me that I could use it for making baby food. I thanked her and then slipped it into the recycling bin. She is "that mom" but I never shall be. C'est la vie!

Marilyn (A Lot of Loves) said...

I could never get into the homemade baby food thing. And although I had a brief moment where I felt bad I decided there's no point in feeling guilty about it. The kids don't care. And it's not like I was feeding them junk. They both ate organic baby food or pureed versions of what we were eating.

daniii♥ said...

Don't feel bad. I wanted to be one of those moms, too. It definitely did not happen. BUT I am getting better at making tasty meals for the 3 of us (even if parts of them are prepackaged or frozen). I never was much of a cook, but hey, I'm trying!

mama hall said...

Thank God for companies like HAPPYBABY who make the organic pureed baby food and toddler finger foods FOR US! :) HAPPYBABY did all the hard work and made me look like "that" mom. :) *shamless plug, i know, but true!*