What does Thanksgiving mean to you?
I know I'm about to get some hateful glares by admitting this, but Thanksgiving for me has always just been about the food. It was a preview of what was to come for Christmas. I have a small family, and we all basically lived within a few miles of each other most of my life. There was no grand reunion at Thanksgiving....it was just a bigger dinner than we usually had.
I know many people say Thanksgiving is special because it's a day to pause and reflect on what we're thankful for. I guess it is. But I try to do that every day, not just on Thanksgiving. And I want to make sure my children remember to be thankful more than one day of the year as well.
So when I'm asked about Thanksgiving traditions in my home? I'm kind of stumped. It really is all about the food. And the parade. We always have the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade on in the background. But the day itself is a jumble of baking and cooking and serving.
We always have turkey. Nothing fancy or exotic. Just turkey please.
The nasty bag of turkey stuff is cooked up and served with rice. (This has always disgusted me, and is one tradition I won't be passing on!)
Sweet potatoes and mashed potatoes.
Only homemade gravy will do.
Pickled onions and beets, made from my Great Grama's recipe. I don't eat them., but we've had them on the table each of my 32 Thanksgivings.
A vegetable or two....sometimes a cold Jello-fluff salad thing...and deviled eggs.
Pecan pie, pumpkin pie, pumpkin bread...
Repeat for about three or four nights until it's all gone.
Are you as hungry as I am?
As a Path To Peace Inspired Blogger I was recently sent some beautiful items from the Macy's Shop For a Better World Rwandan collection, for my Thanksgiving celebration. As I held the beautifully patterned apron and basket in my hands, I began to picture new Thanksgiving traditions unfolding. Food is important, I won't argue that. But I really would like to have something more to pass down to my children.
I could wear this beautiful apron each year on Thanksgiving, and pass it down to my daughters. It's much prettier than the contraband Starbucks aprons I currently wear!
This small woven basket could hold our dreams, wishes, and gratitude from year to year. We could write our hopes and praises on small slips of paper, and use the basket to hold them until next Thanksgiving. How special would it be to bring out the basket each Thanksgiving, reading messages from years past, and adding new ones?
What makes me really want to use these items to begin new Thanksgiving traditions is the history of the items themselves. I told you about the Path To Peace Project, and what a fabulous organization it is. These items connect my Thanksgiving table to a woman's in Rwanda. My traditions to hers. My family to hers. What she wove, I now hold. I don't take that for granted. And I don't want my children to either. These items, although a part of our own traditions, will always remind us of the world from which they came. Of yet another reason to be thankful. And of the interconnectedness of all humanity.
**SEE IT**
Macy's is hosting a series of free in-store events for Path to Peace. There will be product discounts, door prizes, and special guests at each event. If you're local to any of the cities below, I encourage you to attend! Just promise to tell me all about it when you go!
Atlanta: Macy’s Lenox Square: Thursday December 3 at 6:30pm
Washington DC: Macy’s Metro Center: Friday December 4 at 5:30pm
Brooklyn: Macy’s Downtown Brooklyn: Saturday December 5 at 3:00pm
Miami: Macy’s Dadeland Home Store: Sunday December 6 at 3:00pm
New Orleans: Macy’s Lakeside: Tuesday December 8 at 6:00pm
Louisville: Macy’s Oxmoor Center: Saturday December 12 at 3:00pm
**WIN IT**

I have a second Rwandan basket for one of you! (I don't know which style you will get, so it may be different than mine).
To enter, leave a comment sharing a Thanksgiving tradition in your family, or a tradition you'd like to start.
For additional entries:
1. Visit Macy's Shop For A Better World and tell me one other item that catches your eye.
2. Make a purchase from Macy's Shop For A Better World and let me know you did.
3. Tweet about this giveaway
4. Blog about this giveaway
Leave a separate comment for each thing you do.
Comments will lose at midnight, November 30. Winner will be randomly selected and notified via e-mail on December 1. Winner will have 48-hours to claim their prize. Open to US Addresses only, please.
Keeping it real: I was provided with a Rwandan basket, apron, and tote bag as a Path To Peace Inspired Blogger, in exchange for writing this post and hosting this giveaway.





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Our tradition was that everyone in the entire extended family had to come to the grandparent's house for Thanksgiving. Not everyone showed up on other holidays, but everyone came for this one. It was a big gathering, great food, and a time to give thanks. I have fond memories of those happy days long ago.
I love the purple amethyst O bracelete
Currently we have no real traditions in our family, but my friends and I have created a new tradition. Every year, the weekend right after Thanksgiving we all get together and have a "friends Thanksgiving" Family is great, but often great friends get left out of holiday celebrations and this is our way to remember how thankful we are for everyone
Our tradition is that every year the children set the table with the good china for Thanksgiving. They love getting all of the "sparkly stuff" out.
lenz.nicole@gmail.com
I have to agree about the food...but, that is a traditio in itself! There is the Great Aunt's clam dip, Grandma's cranberry chilled log and my pumpkin pie (all fresh & from scratch mind you) with the vodka crust. Do we need other traditions?
andrea.kruse at gmail dot com
All of the family gets together usually at Grndma and Grandpas house.Everyone brings a covered dish.Before we eat we tell what we are thankful for.That's our tradition.
Thanks for the giveaway:)
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For the past three years my children and delvier food baskets to the less fortunate for a big Thanksgiving feast. This will be a tradition that I hope my children will do with their children someday.
tamben7996(at)aol(dot)com
I just love the Fair Winds Trading Rwanda Basket, 12" Pathway Bowl
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Our tradition is after our meal we gather around to play board games!
lgrieser(at)sbcglobal(dot)net
We all go to my brothers house, watch football, eat and have great family time. Thanks for the chance.
mogrill@comcast.net
I will buy Fair Winds Trading Rwanda Necklace, Red Cloud
we have traditional recipes that we make only for Thanksgiving dinner
getting together at grandmas is our tradition
We draw names for Christmas and sit around the table and play board games-I can't wait!
smchester at gmail dot com
The Rwanda "Friendship" Cathedral Basket at Macys is my favorite-very exotic!
smchester at gmail dot com
We always eat a small Thanksgiving around 2pm--
Then run over to our Grandmas
where we meet the whole family and
actually have catered Mexican Food for a big dinner!
=P
(call it crazy)
panicxduh@yahoo.com
Fair Winds Trading Rwanda Necklace,Mancala~
has this eyecatching Bright Blue and beads--
it's like nothing i've ever seen!
looove it.
=]
panicxduh@yahoo.com
Our tradition is to literally go "over the river and through the wood to Grandmother's house we go"!!
Everyone gathers there to celebrate another good and blessed year for our family!! Good food, great company, a peaceful and grateful time.
hi_joan_elliott at hotmail dot com
What a beautiful basket! We always like to play some card or board games on Thanksgiving. It's more fun with a big group!
We usually have dinner, and then watch the first Christmas movie of the season to get us into the holiday spirit.
rsgrandinetti@yahoo(dot)com
We normally go to my hubby;s family and eat and then to my brother's to eat again.
erma.hurtt@sbcglobal.net
My favorite part of Thanksgiving is making our kids act out their rendition of the first Thanksgiving:)
colesammom @ gmail.com
Somewhat of a tradition I have is making a wish on the wishbone upon breaking it. My mother used to do that many yrs ago.
Elation Round Coffee Table.
lighthousee27(at)gmail.com
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We have no family in state, so every year we go to a friend's home and celebrate with another family (although which family tends to vary). And I always make Sweet Potato Souffle!
speechforme at gmail
I love the Fair Winds Trading Rwanda Necklace, Mancala. And our sponsor child (through Africa New Life) is from Rwanda, so we'd super love to win! :)
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It's kinda weird. I taught inner city high school students in NYC the history of the Rwandan genocide for years. It was incredibly engaging for these kids who carried so much emotional baggage to school each day. That's what seeing the apron and basket made me think of. I'm thankful for having had the opportunity to expose sheltered, minority kids wrought with troubles, to Rwanda, and to perspective.
We have two traditions. My children each pick two dishes they want for Thanksgiving and they help prepare them and serve them. We also go around the table and everyone tells what they're thankful for. Thanks so much! pamelashockley(AT)netscape(DOT)net
we really do not have any tradition, sometimes we get a pizza or chinese and we usually watch a bunch of movies on dvd
singermagic1(at)yahoo(dot)com
We eat pizza for Thanksgiving instead of Turkey intime@myself.com
We have a huge family reunion with cousins from all over the country.
president(dot)peaches(at)hotmail(dot)com
We always have our traditional meal - turkey, ham, potato salad, deviled eggs, dressing, etc. We aren't big pumpkin fans, so we have Blender chocolate pie. I also like watching the parade and football.
Our tradition is that everyone does their part in the celebration -- even the very young take part by making name cards, some assist with desserts, some assist with cleanup -- and after we eat we all play charades -- its a lot of fun and makes great memories
brn2lisn(at)gmail(dot)com
My family tradition is playing games after Thanksgiving dinner :)
ktgonyea at gmail.com
My favorite tradition is having everyone tell what their thankful for. It really makes you realize all we take for granted!
april_vereb@yahoo.com
I love the Rwanda Friendship Cathedral Basket!
april_vereb@yahoo.com
Thanks for this beautiful post! I'm involved with the Path to Peace product and love your ideas for incorporating the baskets and apron into your Thanksgiving traditions. Sharing thanks in the baskets and looking back on them every year would be such a powerful family tradition. Enjoy your Path to Peace goodies and I'm sure the lucky contest winners will enjoy theirs!
We always have Eggnog and Stove Top Stuffing on Thanksgiving
Would love to win this!
This is gorgeous!
Our traditon is to make a drum cake which is a sponge cake torte with many layers with chocolate icing. Everyone loves it.
Since none of my family lives locally, I celebrate Thanksgiving each year with friends, and lend a hand in the kitchen!
Thanks for the giveaway!
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Our family tradition is playing Scrabble after we eat, or dividing up the group into teams and playing "dictionary." It stimulates family togetherness nd is good for a lot of laughs.
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