The show last night? Confirmed that a zillion times over. The fugitive was a nineteen-year-old car thief. A kid, basically, headed the wrong way on the highway of life. They captured him the day before his birthday, and do you know what they did? They celebrated this kid's birthday. After having a serious heart to heart with him on the ride to the station, they walked him to the back of the vehicle where there was a huge Birthday Balloon and cake. I couldn't help it; tears ran down my cheeks.
I cried because I miss that feeling. The moment when someone realizes that although the entire world has given up on them, you haven't. The moment when someone realizes, for the first time in a very long time, that they still have a shot at turning this train wreck of a life around. I miss that more than I can tell you, Internets. I experienced it when I taught in prisons. I experienced it when I taught anger management classes for the Navy and Marine Corps. I experienced it when I investigated child abuse. Heck, I even experienced it when I taught High School and Community College. And I really miss it.
As I watched Dog do his thing, I thought to myself, "What in the heck can I do now, at this stage of my life, to give someone that feeling?". I'm a stay-at-home-mom now. My big fancy degrees sit in boxes, untouched. My world consists of diapers and bottles now. I don't have any opportunities to reach out to anyone anymore. What can I possibly do?
This morning I received confirmation to run an amazing giveaway, which I'm about to get to, and it hit me right on top of my head. I may not be able to inspire hope in a prison inmate anymore. I may not be able to show a teen runaway that they are worth saving at this stage of my life. But I can do something. I have this little blog right here. I have a voice. I can use that voice to bring awareness to people and campaigns that deserve much more attention than they get. I can use this voice to bring awareness to issues that many aren't even aware of. So this? This blog post right here? This is just the first of many, my friends.
The project I'm focusing on today is the Rwanda Path To Peace Project.
If you aren't familiar with the Rwandan Genocide of 1994, it was not a happy moment in the history of the world. It was heinous and atrocious; estimates of one million people were brutally murdered over the course of one-hundred days. Yes, it was that bad. Naturally, survivors of the genocide have had a very long fifteen years, and many will never fully recover from what they experienced. Some reports say that any woman who survived the genocide was surely a victim of rape, multiple times over. Many women were even kept as sex slaves for years after the genocide. Imagine trying to build your life again?! How would you even take the first step?!In 2004, Willa Shalit created a basket-weaving, income-generating program for Rwandan widows. "The company, with offices in New York City and Kigali, Rwanda, embodies a new paradigm for global trade between so-called “developing” and “developed” nations. [Shalit's company] identifies culturally authentic products, enhances design for the U.S. markets, and works intimately with partners in Africa and the U.S. to assure full sales of all imported products through retail channels and major corporate gifting programs.". Willa Shalit believes that women helping women is the foundation for a better Rwanda (and a better WORLD!), and believes her program will allow these women to achieve economic development through trade (not aid).
Recently one of Path To Peace's items was featured in O Magazine, with a fantastic article discussing the Path To Peace program and highlighting a few of the women involved. The item featured in O Magazine was the "O Bracelet", and is a tangible tribute to the Path To Peace Project.
The round part of the O Bracelet is woven in Rwanda, and the bracelet is completed by an artisan in New Orleans. Women helping women, indeed. You can view photographs of the artisans in New Orleans working on a batch of O Bracelets here. The O Bracelet, and many other handmade items, can be purchased through Macy's Shop For A Better World.
I had the chance to see the O Bracelet up close at the Type-A Mom Conference last month. That's the beautiful Christie of The Blog Rollers, sporting a lovely turquoise O Bracelet.Remember that feeling I'm trying to give? Money talks, my friends. How we choose to spend our money speaks volumes. What we spend our money on is what we support, so what better way to show support than contributing to a program such as Path To Peace?
**WIN IT**
One of you is going to be blessed with your own O Bracelet. Perfect for yourself, or to give as a holiday gift!
To enter, leave a comment with your thoughts on the Rwandan Path To Peace Project.
For additional entries:
1. Visit Macy's Shop For A Better World and tell me one other item that catches your eye.
2. Make a purchase from Macy's Shop For A Better World and let me know you did.
3. Become a Facebook Fan of Path To Peace
4. Tweet about this giveaway
5. Mention this giveaway on Facebook or any other Social Media platform
6. Blog about this giveaway
Comments will lose at midnight, October 28. Winner will be randomly selected and notified via e-mail on October 29. Winner will have 24-hours to claim their prize. Open to US Addresses only, please.
Keeping it real: I was not compensated in any way, shape, or form for this blog post.






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You know... there is something compelling about Dog the Bounty Hunter. I have often lingered there myself and found myself feeling self-reflective. Who knew!
We are all trying to figure out how to use our small voices to make a positive impact on the world. Don't forget the importance of raising children well in that work! And this is a worthy give-away idea. Wonderful!
So often we forget about tragedies like this as we move on to the next media circus. (Balloon Boy, anyone?) I'm glad that there are people out there who still care about this cause.
PS For a minute, I thought you were going to be a bounty hunter.
I'm so glad that you are talking about this wonderful project as well as the genocide in Rwanda. I think we tend to forget that people are still suffering from the horrible atrocities that occurred in 1994 (and on occasion still do).
The ICC is focused on determining guilt, punishing those involved, and tracking down individuals so "justice" can be served. It's been a slow process and much still needs to be done. In Rwanda, restorative justice practices have tried to mend society. One important ruling from the ICTR was that RAPE became part of the Genocide. Eventually, the UN adopted a resolution declaring RAPE a war crime. But the country is far from being repaired. Determining punishments for the offenders have been problematic and sometimes create deeper wounds.
Tribunals, declaring rape a war crime, and some restorative justice practices do not restore these women and make their lives better immediately. Projects like this one empowers women who were powerless, to regain their self-esteem (many of whom were raped during the genocide), and be able to support themselves, their children, and sometimes their husbands. It gives them a tangible skill, a support group, a sense of belonging and value, and a source of pride. I also think the program starts to heal the divisions caused by colonialism and later the genocide in that they do not discriminate as to who can join. And, it seems like Macy's has been a good corporate partner over the years (which I like since I'm such a Macy's girl).
I have known about the baskets and two styles of bracelet for years. They are beautiful. I have always loved the "Aurora" and the "True Unity" basket (I like blue), but I did not know they were now selling totes and hand-woven jewelry. One day I'll have to pick up the mesh "O" bracelet. I've been meaning too.
Thanks for bringing this up!
We love Dog. I love that they pray for and care for the people that they are chasing. I saw the one last night with the boy who was turning 19 the next day - I actually cried too, but for different reasons than you - it reminded me of my brother.
The Rwandan Genocide was a terrible time for many people, I cannot imagine what it would take in a person to survive that, I think that the Rwanda path to peace project is awesome and I commend their effort to teach these women a trade.
I thank God everyday for my blessings because, even though I have trials and hardships, it has never been something of this nature or extent. I think the Rwandan Path to Peace Project is a great cause that deserves recognition. Kudos to them for standing up for what is right.
partymix25(at)hotmail(dot)com
At the shop for a better world I really like the Indonesia Square Serving Tray, Floating Roses.
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I think the project is wonderful and I admire Oprah so much for creating this foundation and doing so much for people less fortunate.
Thank you for the giveaway :)
hurdler4eva(at)gmail(dot)com
I also really love the Rwanda Mini Tote Bag, Village Print!
Thank you for the giveaway :)
hurdler4eva(at)gmail(dot)com
Awesome post! Isn't that one of the wonderful things about blogging? That we can use our voices for things that truly matter. Thanks for being apart of this special movement.
Winks & Smiles,
Wifey
What a great program. Thanks for the chance.
Thanks for using your voice and reminding us that we all have one. Tragedies like this go unnoticed and when they are noticed we feel like they are too big for us to do anything about. You can't do everything, but you must do SOMETHING! As a stay at home mom, you can raise your kids with compassion for the poor and hurting, even if your degrees collect more dust daily. I hope we all use our influence to change something for someone in a world of hurting people! Thanks again!
You rock.
And so does Path to Peace. I don't know what to say about it, except for that I'm moved because I do think of these things all the time. (Rwanda, etc) NOT tooting my horn, because I feel like I don't DO enough...but just saying...I feel like you did after watching Dog quite often.
Yeah, so...you rock. For doing this and for the inspiring way you said what you said.
what a great idea, what a great project. Too much bad news on TV now a days or too many 15 minute celeberties filling the blogs I wish there was more posivive
I love the Rwanda mini tote! I would use it all the time!! Thanks for the chance.
mogrill@comcast.net
What a phenomenal organization. I thank God that women are helping one another in this way, and I'd be grateful to be part of it.
Path2Peace facebook fan (Angela Townsend).
In Macy's "Shop for a Better World," I also love the Rwanda Chrysoprase Self-Knot Long Knotted Strand Necklace.
The plight of the Rwandan people is one that is very near and dear to my heart, so it makes me very happy to see this effort getting so much publicity.
From what i know, it sounds like the path to peace project is a worthy cause that at least to me doesn't get a lot or enough exposure.
dreamcleavers@yahoo.com
This seems like a wonderful cause and I am left wondering why we don't hear about things like this more often. Thank you for using your little voice to spread the word. I look forward to more from you along these lines. trinitygsd at yahoo dot com
I think that this is a wonderful cause and I would be honored to wear this bracelet. I only wish the cause would get more publicity.
ag1414@hotmail.com
I'm a fan of path2peace on facebook.
angela.gaffke
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I LOVE the Fair Winds Tranding Rwanda Basket, Harvest Bowl.
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=403890&CategoryID=39173
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I love the Path to Peace project and think it's such a great cause. I found myself getting sucked in to their website reading every single aspect of the project. It was such a terrible time in history and any opportunity that can be giving to these women who lost their families during this time to help them better their lives just blows my mind.
amysweepstake at yahoo.com
I love the Rwanda "Day" Peace Basket, 12" x 7", it's not something I would usually pick out of a store but this particular design reminds me of a basket that my grandparents had in their home when I was small.
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I'm a facebook fan! (Amy B)
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I tweeted you! http://twitter.com/Kidazy/status/5219075498
I Stumbled you! (kidazy)
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I blogged you! http://www.kidazy.com/contests/40-walmart-gift-card-and-more/
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The Path To Peace Project is such an awesome thing! I remember reading about the Rwandan Genocide, it was so heartbreaking to realise the survivors had lost so many friends and relatives, and then to think what they'd been through themselves!
Any scheme which helps them is a good thing, not just theraputic stuff but things that help them live again and feel like they're useful and wanted in the world. It's so hard when you've got nothing, being taught to fish is far better than being handed fish.
Conflict is created by poverty. When you give people the tools to honestly earn a living, that's a great stride towards peace.
Jennnifer, jennem22@yahoo.com
The Rwanda mini tote looks great. So does this project. What a great opportunity to help out!
strycker@slu.edu
we need to love one another and live in peace, this is a wonderful project
path 2 peace facebook fan
tony l smoaks
I think it's a wonderful project and it gives so many a sense of purpose and being when it's so necessary!
I think the Rwandan Path To Peace Project is a great idea!
Sounds like a good cause.
I became a Facebook fan of Path To Peace.
The Rwanda Mini Tote Bag, Village Print looks very nice!
I also really love the Rwanda Mini Tote Bag, Village Print!
Become a Facebook Fan of Path To Peace
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tweeted @momsfocus
post it in facebook
blogged here http://momsfocusonline.com/october-03-other-giveaway.html
Christina - I just viewed the newly released on DVD As We Forget DVD on the Rwanda genocide! Of course giving these widows and widowers and survivors the ability to support themselves through doing artwork is good, and in the DVD that I viewed the perps had to come and apologize to the victims (even thoiugh they themselves had been forced by the government to slaughter people lest they be killed themselves!).
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